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What Living Alone Means To Me

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For someone who has spent almost half of his life living along with sisters and other family members, living independently could be a breath of fresh air.

I was living with my sister Bhing since I began my college education in the city until now that I am in my fourth job. That was more or less seven years. We had been sharing boarding houses and things, and made decisions together for quite a long time. She became a mother to me especially that my parents are staying in our province.

Aside from the both of us, Ate Lyn, another sister of mine, soon joined when she also started working in the city. We made the most out of a very small room that can barely hold three people. Not to mention that the whole room also serves as the living room, bedroom, kitchen, and dining area. Such versatility. My parents’ visit also became frequent so imagine how we maximize the floor when we sleep and move around.

Our family grew when my sister Lyn bore an unanticipated gift later on. And because she still need guidance from my parents in taking care of her baby, she stayed with us along with her husband, again, in the same boarding room. It seems we can fit in can better than sardines.

We have to make huge adjustments and compromises; from sharing space, sacrificing privacy at some point, scheduling chores, and apportioning financial matters. That set-up remained even until now, quite better because we recently transferred to a more spacious apartment. And our family kept growing, now that my sister Bhing is expecting his first baby and his husband also lived with us. My mother also became our permanent resident. We are seven. I can say that we can be perfect representation of family-oriented, a strong Filipino value.

But I realized, this arrangement should not be forever. Given that all my sisters are already married, by logical principle, they should be living on their own, separating from their parents, and building their own family.

Being the youngest in the family and the only one left single, I always do the grandest adjustments and it gives me so much fatigue. Added to that is the stress caused by conflicts on things like house chores, personal spaces, orderliness, sanitation among others. With those experiences, I have listed few of the things that I would find rewarding when I live alone and on my own.

  1. I only get to wash your own plate. I am such a couch potato and little did my family know that washing dishes is one of the house chores I hate doing. When I lived with so many people, I sometimes forced to wash all the dishes. If I live alone, I will only get to wash two to four pieces. In short, you only clean your own mess.
  2. Cook and buy food only for yourself. I don’t mean to be selfish. I mean that you only spend for yourself. Living with my sisters sometimes mean I have to include them in my budget. I think that when I are alone, I don’t have to spend so much and I can actually control my spending for food.
  3. Decide on what food to buy and eat. Recently, I am gradually adapting a healthy lifestyle. I work out and control and choose what I eat. However, I can’t always just prepare a hard-boiled egg for breakfast and just fruits for dinner. So, my mother tends to cook what they normally eat. And sometimes, I get tempted. I know it is a lame excuse. I know it is an issue of discipline. But it would really help if the food available in the kitchen supports your chosen lifestyle. One of my sisters have a tendency to include chips and other sweets in our grocery and it is too inviting to binge-eat. At least, I would be less worried if my cabinet is stuffed with healthy options. In other words, I have less people to consider in whatever decisions that I need to make.
  4. Freedom to do what you want. Living alone is so ideal for artists. When you are alone, the house becomes conducive to creative processes. There are less distractions and inhibitions. I could barely write at home because I am the type of person who becomes uncomfortable whenever somebody watches me pound keys. Aside from that, I can also do my work out not worrying how awkward I look. I can enjoy being myself when I am alone.
  5. You can have the most wanted silence after a noisy day’s work. There is no better way to relax than to cherish the tranquility of the silence.

This is my fair share to Yaoyao Ma Van As’s illustrations on the joy of being alone. Van As is painter, illustrator, and occasional animator based in Los Angeles. You can see the rest of her work here: Illustrator Perfectly Captures the Happiness of Living Alone in 10+ Illustrations.

Hopefully, the end of 2017 also ends this kind of set-up and I could fully enjoy the privileges of being and living on my own.



Why The Ransom Collective is My Ultimate Mood Changer

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The first time I heard (or read) about The Ransom Collective was in a section of a local daily. The young band was featured to be something to look forward to because it has been starting to make waves in the mainstream music industry, along with Autotelic and other indie artists.

Curious enough, I zapped my current tab to YouTube and the first song that caught me was Fools. The song was catchy enough that I listened to more of their songs until I could not get enough of it. It was a love at first listen.

The Band

The Ransom Collective is a Filipino indie folk band composed of its founder, vocals, and guitarist Kian Ransom, vocalist and percussionist Jermaine Choa Peck, keyboardist sisters Lily and Muriel Gonzales (also violin), bassist Leah Halili, and drummer Redd Claudio. It was founded in August 2013.

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It was the idea of Ransom to form a band with a fellow Hunny Lee, the first drummer, and the others except Claudio. Claudio only came in after Lee returned to South Korea to render his military service duties.

The group proved their chemistry after winning the Wanderland Music and Arts Festival 2014 pre-event band competition, Wanderband and since then, their magic just spread. They were able to produce their self-titled EP in September 2014 featuring their debut single, Fools. It was then followed by the album Traces in May 20, 2017 featuring the singles Settled and Open Road.

And recently, they had a collaboration with the music industry’s John and Gab of Urbandub in the music show Coke Studio Philippines. Following their process of producing new songs make me love them more.

The Songs

There have been so much written about the band. They are ubiquity online is overwhelming. So I will just share my personal favorites from this brilliant band.

Playful yet reflective. That laid-back feeling in the midst of deep-thinking.

Those were the words I can best describe while listening to the songs of The Ransom Collective. I kind of regretted how I let days past before I wrote about them. I just couldn’t help how their songs are making me feel every time I listen to them while in a commute to work. Their music, the enchanting sound of glockenspiel and soothing violin, the amazing vocals and the lyrics is an alchemy. It either changes my mood or sets the tone for the whole day and every song just suits every time of the day.

I don’t know. Maybe it is the youthful vibe that these young artists channel that make you feel inspired. And most of the songs talks about freedom and letting loose in life and the thrill of taking risks in pursuing your happiness. Perhaps, their songs appealed to me most because I am a millennial, the generation  who loves being carefree in their choices, who yearns to express themselves without being judged, and who are so driven and who always wanted to be independent. I admired the group’s kind of energy and attitude and versatility. I haven’t found the interview but Kian shared that they tried each others instruments and they all nailed a performance.

I am a fan now. Have them in your playlist!

More stories about The Ransom Collective:

FEATURE: The crossover appeal of the ransom collective

The Ransom Collective: Not Just Folking Around

The Ransom Collective: Hopeful Wanderers

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TJ Monterde, KZ Tandingan stage first Davao concert

Disclaimer: I do not own the photos used in this article. They are grabbed from Renelyn Barbarona and the Cornerstone Entertainment, Inc on Facebook. 

What happens when a sweet, endearing crooner and an edgy, soul royalty share one stage?

TJ Monterde and KZ Tandingan showed it is so far the most unique blend ever.

The real life couple artists just enthralled and kept their Davao fans swooning throughout their TJxKZ Live in Davao concert Sunday, August 06 at the University of Southeastern Philippines (USEP) Gymnasium.

It is TJ and KZ’s first concert together and first in Davao.

“Gipili namo nga diri sa Davao kay taga diri mi (We chose to perform here in Davao because it is where we came from),” said KZ in one of chat with the audience. Both artists are from Mindanao. Monterde hails from Cagayan de Oro City while Tandingan is a pride of Digos City, Davao del Sur.

Soft and sweet ballad

At the start of the show, TJ Monterde set a lovely mood by singing Sa Tuwina, a hit from his 2014 album Ikaw at Ako followed by Imahinasyon from his self-titled album in 2016.

TJ Monterde x KZ Tandingan Live in Davao
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Despite his fame, the musician still humbly introduced himself to the shrieking crowd. “Hello po. Ako nga po pala si TJ Monterde,” he said and went on telling the stories behind his songs. Monterde is known for his serenading approach to songs. His lyrics, which most of them he wrote are also quite unorthodox compared to most of the OPM songs.

WATCH: TJ Monterde intro performance

Monterde, after a few chats, sang the soothing Majika, one of his latest songs which he said is dedicated to his partner.

“Sa kada album nako, naa gyud koy kanta para kang KZ (I always have a song for KZ in every album),” the 28-year-old crooner, who spoke all throughout the show in Bisaya, shared to his avid supporters. He said KZ is also his inspiration of his song Ikaw at Ako, the song that catapulted him to popularity. “Mao ni ang kanta nako katong nanguyab pa ko sa iyaha (That was my song for her when I was still courting her),” he said.

Aside from that, he performed his only Bisaya hugot song Kung Siya Man, and other hit songs such as Dating Tayo and capped his set with Tulad Mo.

WATCH: Kung Siya Man, TJ Monterde sings Kung Siya Man

Edgy and beastly soul

From the sweet atmosphere, the mood gradually shifted into something heavy and soulful as KZ had her dramatic entrance. Her edgy style – blue, baggy top, glittery boots and bleached thinly braided hair, demands attention as her voice crept into senses. She is doing yet a breathtaking act. Not until she displayed her rapping prowess in her rendition of rap icon Gloc-9’s Sumayaw Ka. She seemed to have transformed into a beast.

It was about three minutes of awe.

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TJ Monterde x KZ Tandingan Live in Davao cornerstone entertainment inc
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WATCH: KZ Tandingan’s amazing performance

Tandingan was taken far from by her jazz rendition of the 1955 Judy Garland song Over The Rainbow as her audition piece in the Philippine franchise of the singing reality show X Factor in 2012 and became its very first grand winner. Since then, she had been performing pop-belting songs but after she established a name in the music industry, she realized she can do better than just hitting high notes. She followed her heart’s delight and finally evolved into a soul and contemporary R&B royalty, with rapping on the side.

What is being concealed by her strong image is her comical demeanor. She, an effortless comedienne, lightened the ambiance with her usual Davaoeno humor.

Being an alumna of the university where the concert was mounted, she felt comfortable “catching up” with her fans in between her songs, retrospecting her memorable experiences in her school days and perpetually thanking the people behind her successes. She also granted hugs and selfies to few of her fans on stage and messed around with them at the same time.

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KZ invites fans to have selfies with her on stage. Photo courtesy: Cornerstone Entertainment, Inc.
TJ Monterde x KZ Tandingan Live in Davao cornerstone entertainment inc
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Despite having members of the band coming from places other than Mindanao, Tandingan loosened up by sharing stories in Bisaya. She remarked that those who can’t understand the dialect should be the one to adjust since the concert is in Mindanao.

“Kanang mga katapad nga bisaya sa mga tagalog, kamo na bahala og explain unsa akong ginapang-ingon diri. Magbisaya ta. Naa ta sa Mindanao (To those Bisaya people beside those who can’t understand our dialect, just explain to them what I am talking here. We should speak in Bisaya. We are in Mindanao), ” she jested. The empowered fans cheered loudly.

Among the songs she sang in the show is Labo from her latest album Soul Supremacy. Aside from that, she performed her version of Tadhana by UDD, the OST of the prime time teleserye Ang Probinsyano, Wag Ka Nang Umiyak, electrifying renditions of a Parokya ni Edgar hit Bagsakan and Teeth’s Laklak, and finally, her one of the most requested song, Mahal Ko o Mahal Ako. She also granted the fans’ request to sing a sample of Two Less Lonely People, the official theme song of the high-grossing film Kita Kita.

Extraordinary harmony

Two different genres. A balladeer and a soul supreme. A romantic and an edgy.

They may, at some point, have contrasting appeals when it comes to their music but it only made them the most interesting couple there is. It is their love for music that kept them in harmony.

The moment the couple ruled the stage, it became a celebration of Vispop (Visayan pop). TJ and KZ sang few of the famous Cebuano songs to the delight of the audience. On top of the lineup are the frequently requested songs Hahahasula by Cebuano artists Kurt Fick, Pero Atik Ra by Jacqueline Chang, Balay ni Mayang by Martina San Diego and Kyle Wong, and Ay Labyu Langga by Jerika Teodorico. The two capped their show with their song, “Ikaw at Ako Pa Rin“, leaving their awesome fans a kilig-filled night.

TJ Monterde x KZ Tandingan Live in Davao
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WATCH: TJxKZ, TJ and KZ join together on stage

But more than the blissful songs are the sweetness of the lovebirds. KZ fondly teased and messed around with her partner in front of the swooning crowd. The couple became official since January 28, 2015 but their relationship became public in February after they guested on a morning show in Kapamilya network. They considered themselves an inspiration to each other, especially to their music.

It was an awesome and love-filled concert. Aside from TJ and KZ, Mark Carpio serenaded the audience with his song Hiling along with few Davaoeno artists Rexvin Galang, the band Footwear, and Zhalia trio. The show was organized by the Positive Impact Productions.

Latest Kadayawan jingle released, an ode to unity

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Its overture is an enthusiastic beat of an ethnic drum, perhaps gimbal. In a few counts, the enchanting chant of Maan Chua (I should know) resounds until a burst of harmony from the instruments kulintang, kubing, and some stringed instrument I am no expert at completes the ensemble. And finally, the unique voices of Mindanawon artists Popong Landero, Joey Ayala, Bayang Barrios, Maan Chua, Raffy Ayala, Maree Cantaoi Cayas, and the female band Duchess in Throne weaved the euphoric musical colors of the newest anthem for the 32nd Kadayawan Festival entitled “Kadayawan, Kahiusahan.”

The full version of the song was released on Tuesday by the official Facebook page of the festival Kadayawan sa Davao. “The song talks about the celebration of Kadayawan as an ageless story of unity and resiliency,” the caption says.

The song is a refreshing addition to the Kadayawan music repertoire following the one composed and performed by Dandin Ranillo in 2011. The song was entitled “Davao (Kadayawan sa Davao)” which spoke purely of the festival and the interesting and iconic spots in the city.

Kadayawan, Kahiusahan (Kadayawan, Celebration in Unity) was composed and arranged by Mindanawon country, folk, and reggae artist Popong Landero.

Listen to the full song here and sing along:

Composed and Arranged by: Popong Landero
Featured Artists: Popong Landero, Joey Ayala, Bayang Barrios, Maan Chua, Raffy Ayala, Maree Contaoi Cayas, & Duchess in Throne.

Kasaganaan ng pamayanan
Kahiusahan natong tanang
Napulo ug usang kaliwatan

Sa dagat, lawa, kapatagan, kabukiran
Nagtitipon-tipon, salo-salo sa biyaya

Matatag na pamayanan
Di natitinag ang kahiusahan

Pasalamatan ta ang Kahitas-an
Sa biyaya ng kalikasan

Kasaganaan ng pamayanan
Kahiusahan natong tanang
Napulo ug usang kaliwatan
Sa dagat, lawa, kapatagan, kabukiran
Nagtitipon-tipon, salo-salo
Kasaganaan ng pamayanan
Kasaganaan ng pamayanan
Kasaganaan ng pamayanan
Kahiusahan natong tanang
Napulo ug usang kaliwatan

Like the Kadayawan sa Davao Facebook Page and follow its Twitter account for more of the event schedules. Enjoy!

Celebrate a meaningful Kadayawan

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It is Kadayawan season once again!

People from all walks of life will soon come together in streets of Davao City to celebrate the profusion of harvest and richness of culture. We can’t help but swoon over the colorful and vibrant events lined up this month, whether it is organized by the government or the malls. All are in-store to let you experience the essence of being a Davaoeno.

But is missing no single event the best way to celebrate Kadayawan?

The activities are odes to the five icons of Davao City – the Philippine Eagle, the Mount Apo, the Indigenous People, the Durian, and the Waling-Waling. There is the Indak-Indak (street dancing), the Pamulak (floral floats), tribal music performances and contests, Hiyas sa Kadayawan to name a few. There are baskets and stalls brimming with different fruits at a low price for you to enjoy.

Davao Logo 2017

However, the bliss and excitement during the whole month are ephemeral. The city returns to normal after the festival. The memories may linger for a quite a long time but not until the next Kadayawan.  And the significance, for some reason, will be left intangible and ideal.

There is something we can do to at least one of the city’s icons – the Philippine Eagle, the preserver of nature where the bounty springs from and the guardian of the forest where it resides, in unity with the indigenous people.

Staff from Marco Polo Davao struts the fancy eagle stuffed toys for bid.
Staff from Marco Polo Davao struts the fancy eagle stuffed toys for bid.

Philippine Eagle Marco Polo Davao

Philippine Eagle Mascot, "Pepe"
Philippine Eagle Mascot, “Pepe”

For the whole duration of the celebration, adorable and fluffy eagle stuffed toys in traditional and fashionable ethnic garbs are up for bid at the Marco Polo Davao. Buying a pair of the eagle toys mean adopting and supporting a real Philippine wildlife king at the Philippine Eagle Center. The auction starts with a price of 2,500 pesos for a pair. Proceeds will go to the Philippine Eagle Foundation.

The toy eagles were presented by the staff of the hotel as they open this year’s Kadayawan with the launching of Fashion and Fusion, both a gastronomic and visual festivity of everything Davao. There are also paintings that are for sale. And lastly, the cacao and chocolate products from various business members of the Cacao Industry and Development Association of Mindanao, Inc. (CIDAMi) are on the display. In case you don’t want to bid, you can still donate by buying a regular stuffed toy eagle for 600 pesos.

Painting Marco Sunstar
Photo credit: Ace Perez, Sunstar Davao Social Media Content Editor


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Photo credit: Ace Perez, Sunstar Davao Social Media Content Editor


Feel the vibe of Kadayawan by visiting the hotel at the heart of Davao, Marco Polo Hotel for the month-long arts and business exhibition and celebrate with a lasting impact. Supporting the eagles, the symbol of a true blooded Davaoeno, will perfectly embody this year’s theme: “Stand Tall. United. Resilient.”

Quest inspires to begin again with Unang Hakbang

Do you want to start something, perhaps a project, a cause, a hobby or whatever but you have a lot of reservations, the fear of not being accepted, of failure and of disappointments? Do you want to start your life again because you are too torn and stressed, tired and depressed but are afraid that hurt will continue to haunt? Then Quest demands you to make his new song your motivational anthem.

When I was in the middle of it all (and still is), the new song Unang Hakbang by Quest feat. Keiko Necesario came to my solace.  I first heard the 35-year-old Filipino artist when he was featured in fliptopper Loonie’s song “Tao Lang”, an equally empowering music.

Quest ft Keiko Necesario Unang Hakbang

But the Hiphop and R&B singer Quest or Jose Villanueva III in real life earned his popularity through his music “Sige Lang” in 2012 which was the anthem of the basketball team Gilas Pilipinas. He then swooped up after he wrote the “Walang Hanggan”, the official soundtrack of “Ang Kwento Nating Dalawa (The Story of Us that Never Was)”, a melancholic independent film by Nestor Abrogena starring Nicco Manalo (Sam) and Emmanuelle Vera (Isa). It is the story of two souls who are both aware of their romantic connection but are afraid to admit it. They just played everything by ear, until the end.

Writing inspiring songs could be Quest’s cup of tea, perhaps influenced by his Christian background. He was a lead vocalist and music ministry director at Victory in Manila. He concentrated on his music in 2007 and started recording Flip Music with Jumbo de Belen in 2009.

Since then, he reaped the ‘Best Urban Music Video for 2010’ at the MYX Awards Philippines for his first single “Back to Love”. Finally, he became an official Warner Music Philippines baby in 2015 with his sophomore album Life of a Champion which was released on May 20, 2016.

And just recently, he introduced his newest song in his Youtube Channel officialQuesttv. This will be the first of the original songs he presented “stripped down as requested”. Set in a room with his band, he sang it raw and live. The song is as chilling as the one prior to this but with an optimistic sting. His husky voice compliments the tone and melody. Adding to the dramatic spice is Keiko Necesario.

The song is a perfect moral support when you wanted to move on but do not know where to start. “Yung di na mababago bitawan mo na, sa paghilom ng sugat may bagong simula. Maniwala ka man o hindi, lahat yan ay merong silbi, sige. (Leave those you can’t change. In the healing of wounds, there is a new beginning. Believe it or not, it will pay off in the end.),” the song suggests.

And further, the chorus taps into a reality you either did not recognize or deny to believe. “Pwede ka nang kumawala, dyan sa rehas mong gawa-gawa. Wag na magpanggap na nawawala. Wala namang mawawala kung magsimulang muli. (You can now break away from your makeshift chain. You will not lose anything if you begin again),” the song added.

Get the feels by listening to it here:

Unang Hakbang (Lyrics)

Ayoko ko na dito.
Sawa na ko dito.

Hingang malalim, damhin ang hangin
Tingala sa langit, di pa to tapos
Meron pang galit, inagaw, inakit, paasa, pasakit
Pusong naghihikahos, kumapit ako
Kahit ano gagawin ko pero bakit gan’to
Nangyari sa’yo, bakit ako
Pwede na’kong sumuko
Dito na lang sa dulo
Pero sinubukan kong matuto

Quest, Keiko:
Yung di na mababago bitawan mo na
Sa paghilom ng sugat may bagong simula
Maniwala ka man o hindi, lahat yan ay merong silbi, sige

Pwede ka nang kumawala
Dyan sa rehas mong gawa-gawa
Wag na magpanggap na nawawala
Wala namang mawawala kung magsimulang muli

Quest (Rap):
Pagbigyan mo ang bukas
Wag kang matakot umusad
Kapag nahanap ang lunas ang nakaabang ay walang katulad
Ang puso’y namulat, may mga patunay na sugat
Mas malakas ka na ngayon, tumingala ka sa ulap
Kwento ng tagumpay ang pinakahihintay
Akala mo tapos na, muntik ka pang bumigay
Ngayon nagdiriwang ang langit, simulan mo na ulit umawit
Ibaon ang noon para sa ngayon unang hakbang

Quest, Keiko:
Kung gusto mo ng bago iwanan mo yan
Hilumin ang sugat ito na ang paraan
Maniwala ka man o hindi, lahat yan ay merong silbi, sige

Chorus then…
Buksan  mo ang ‘yong mga mata
Para hindi ka na nangangapa
Di mo na kailangan pang mangamba
Magpaalam sa nakaraan at magsimulang muli

Ayoko ko na dito
(Quest: Hindi kita iiwan) (3x)
Sawa na’ko dito

2nd Chorus then…
Magsimulang muli (3x)

It turns out, the song is actually a sequel of first hit music Walang Hanggan. Quest shared the video of the indie film’s OST on his twitter with a teaser:”Let me tell you a story. A Trilogy. Feb – WALANG HANGGAN (Pt 1) Mar – UNANG HAKBANG (Pt 2) Apr – KALAWAKAN(Pt 3)”.

Putting the pieces together, the story chronicles the heartbreak with Walang Hanggan and standing up and starting again with Unang Hakbang.  Meanwhile, He already performed Kalawakan live in a musical session called A Space Manila and several venues. Uploaded on Youtube by radiorepublicph, Quest conveyed the message about opening your heart again.

Watch it here: Quest – “Kalawakan” Live and _Acoustic at A Space Manila!

Whatever you are going through, wherever you are right now in your life, you are joined by Quest in your quest. For now, you should be taking the risk, beginning again, and refreshing your life. All you need to do is to take that Unang Hakbang (First Step) and everything will follow. Aja!